Who better to give advice than those who have played an active role in the unravelment?
By all means find a way to get over your disgust with why she did what she did. We walked on the beach together and it was if time was standing still. She mirrored the same feelings, although she has a hard time expressing herself emotionally.
Granted, this topic has many opinions/viewpoints as determined by each person you ask - i am using this category as my wife was married to 3 men before me. My friend who I was sexually active with at the time tells me their's a girl up in her... (If you still work in the industry I mean no offense.) Since my departure from the business my life has changed.
I have returned to school, I am happier, and have found a person to...
My wife is now what she was when I met her in Colombia.....a working prostitute but she prefers to be called a "puta" because she works as a call girl and also works in a club in Bogota.
Because of this, they tend to take whatever client is willing, and a lot get used and abused.