Once we meet a man we really like, we women tend to dive right in.
We want to give our hearts, mind and very soul to a man, and meld together into a perfect relationship.
Questions like, In the uncertainty stage, when a woman doesn't understand where a man is coming from, she may panic.
No, I'm not arrogant at all, I have to tell myself this to get in the right frame of mind. I don't want to think that there is any competition, that I am a unique individual and if I have what he wants, then no one can replace me.
Otherwise, I will be thinking how pretty are the girls? You know, I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me!
If you are on a personal connection, like at home, you can run an anti-virus scan on your device to make sure it is not infected with malware.
If you are at an office or shared network, you can ask the network administrator to run a scan across the network looking for misconfigured or infected devices.
Later in the relationship, you can ask yourself if this is the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with.