Tell him, "I really like you, but I'm just not ready for this." Chances are he was doing it because he thought that it was what you wanted. In general, though, pain during sex does indicate that things aren't going as they should and it's a good topic to talk to your doctor about.
Q: Everyone says that sex is fun and that it feels good. A: Yes, sex can be fun and feel good, but it's not true that sex just "feels good" across the board in any situation.
If I promise not to get upset, can you tell me something that you’d like to change in me but don’t have the nerve to tell me? If you weren’t in the profession you are, what would be your other dream profession and why? Apart from the most obvious one, which other two areas of your body are the most sensitive and responsive? Which three parts of my body are your personal favourites and why? Can you name three qualities that attracted you when you met me/got to know me?
If you and your guy want to get more physically intimate that needs to be a mutual decision — not something that he decides on his own. Some girls feel discomfort when the hymen stretches or tears, which can cause a little bleeding.
If this is not a step you are comfortable with, let him know. Sometimes a girl may not be aroused (or she's feeling nervous or worried) so her vagina isn't lubricated enough for the guy's penis to enter comfortably. And of course, couples should always use a condom every time they have sex to protect against unplanned pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
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