Lesbian dating men

He took it really well, we both agreed to carry on the friendship, and things were OK for a week or so. I was in the middle of some huge life changes — breaking up with my girlfriend of over a year, my parents were splitting up, and I was about a month away from packing up everything I owned and leaving my hometown for a new city 1,700 miles away — and in a “fuck it” kind of phase, generally feeling like I was jumping off a cliff into a great unknown. So the next time we were drunk I flirted with him until he made a move to kiss me, and I let him do it. I was craving physical affection that I was no longer getting from my girlfriend, I was flattered that he felt something for me, and I was just plain curious because I’d never really had any sexual contact with a man before. We went at it for a bit, but eventually I got bored and stopped him.

lesbian dating men-19

When we've been burned one time to many by men and we've said, maybe even jokingly, how much easier it would be to become a lesbian and never have to deal with them again. But a recent study from the Essex University psychology department said that while straight men are straight, no question, heterosexual women — whatever we ourselves might think — are always secretly attracted to their own sex, too. According to the study, all women are either gay or bisexual, but NEVER straight.

So without further ado, here at the 10 reasons giving up on men and becoming a lesbian isn't such a bad idea.

And, while I appreciate the feminist research that has gone into things like studying how this commercialist exploitation of hyper-beautiful models impacts women, I feel like we may be getting a little led astray here.

Because here’s the thing; when I was dating women, I still saw those images; they just didn’t bug me as much.

Eventually, you will look for something else somewhere, and it won't be a man.

Last modified 17-Jul-2017 04:23