The next day Rita was in an expansive, exuberant mood. Rita says she's looking for a man who's loyal, responsible, educated, spiritual, and ambitious and who wants to be a father. But in the heat of the moment she forgets her intentions.
She lay on her back with her hand behind her head, giggling and gazing at the ceiling. Rita rolled her eyes at the earnest duds who dressed up to speed-date.
She'd met twenty men, she said, in a sort of fevered rush. Instead, her marvelous man, the only one to whom she said yes, turned out to be a sweet-talking brute who was currently living on his friend's couch.
Three minutes was all she 'd had to form an impression of each "date" before the bell rang and she moved on to the next. For three minutes he gazed at her with burning eyes and asked questions like "Sweetheart, why don't you model?
The study of interpersonal attraction is a major area of research in social psychology.